Divorce – the end or the beginning?

Divorce – the end or the beginning? Divorce is a stressful experience for us. Regardless of whether we are sure of our decision, a lot of emotions are associated with it. The courtroom, opposite the spouse, and next to us the lawyer. An unenviable situation. However, parting does not have to mean the end of the world. We have a future worth taking care of. During the divorce, we are not interested in her, but later that changes. 

Reasons for divorce

There are many reasons for parting with a loved one. Sometimes they are just a difference of character, and often they are the result of drastic situations involving a partner. We are talking about domestic violence, where divorce becomes a godsend. Not everyone can walk away in this situation. Women are more often the victims of domestic violence, although men, contrary to appearances, also happen. By deciding to break up, they are winners. Experiencing constant physical and mental wounds, they are weak, but in defying it in court, they show courage and strength. A common reason for divorce is the infidelity of one of the spouses. Then we ask ourselves – why? Were we inferior, did we not care enough about our mutual relations, and is it our fault?It often happens that we go through a crisis in marriage and stop fighting for it. This is also the cause of divorce. Constant quarrels mean that we do not feel strong enough to fight to rebuild our relationship with our spouse. Our faith that it will still be fine is fading away.

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The consequences of parting

We are not the only ones suffering from divorce. If we have children, they are the most affected. They don’t understand what’s going on. Why do my parents want to divorce. After all, they’re family. They are unsure of what will happen next. Who will they stay with and what contact will they have with the other parent. The decision to divorce is hard. Sometimes they decide to break up their marriage after a dozen or so years of service. On the other hand, it often happens that a woman is stuck with a man who beats her, humiliates her and mentally torments her. They are unable to imagine a future life other than the one they have lived so far. Fear of the unknown prevents them from making a decision that would free them from a toxic relationship. Divorce is less and less seen as something shameful. But for some it is unacceptable.

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The best way is to part amicably if possible. It is a huge crossing through a wave of feelings, so why add suffering to yourself. Guilt sometimes lies in the middle, but it’s hard to admit it to both your partner and your partner. After a stage in life, we often close ourselves to the world. We do not visit old friends for fear of what they will say and how they will criticize our decision. We shed a sea of ​​tears and we can’t face everyday life. If we have children, we have someone to live for. We have someone to strive for a better future. Time heals all wounds, but we can speed up the process. A breakup often ends with a visit to a psychologist when we can’t help ourselves. This is also a way out.

The consequence of divorce is also the fear of a new relationship. Unsure if it’s time, if the new partner won’t turn out to be a copy of the previous one, and if we will keep another relationship if we couldn’t cope with the previous one. These doubts most often win with our future. We reject a new love possessed by fear after a failed marriage.

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Step by step divorce

We’re sure we want to break up, what’s next? What formalities are associated with it? We must file for divorce with the civil division of the county court where we last lived. A sample of such a claim should be available directly in court, or if we used the services of a lawyer, he will do everything for us. In the justification of the lawsuit, which is important for the court’s decision, we must describe in detail the reasons for the breakdown of the marriage. We can also document them. Getting a divorce is possiblewhen the permanent breakdown of life took place, so let’s spend some time on this aspect. We may need witnesses. Depending on the reasons for the breakdown of the marriage, it is recommended to prepare forensic examinations and medical certificates if domestic violence has occurred. It is important to indicate whether we want this to take place by agreement of the parties or whether we want to blame the spouse. The petition must bear the signature of the spouse submitting it. We should make it in three copies, in which one is left for us. The statement of claim can be filed at the registry office or sent by registered mail.

What about good memories?

Beautiful memories certainly existed in the common marriage. During a divorce, you need to forget about them for a while to survive it. Closing ourselves to positive information will not allow us to change the decision once made. Later, we can narrow our memory down to just them. No one can take them away from us, and everyone likes to remember nice events, regardless of who they are related to. These nice moments will allow us to start life anew, and not drown in constant hatred for the former spouse, which we later transfer to newly met people. Divorce is not the end of the world . Sometimes it is the only way to start a new, better life at the beginning. Leaving all evil far behind.